Grief and remembrance · Step 8 of 8
Bereavement
We lost our child and we are carrying unbearable grief.
What to expect
There is no right way and no timeline for this grief. Bereavement support is not an afterthought, it is part of care. There are communities of families who understand this loss, counselors who specialize in it, and ways to remember and honor your child. You are still part of this community, for as long as you want to be.
First steps
- Reach out for bereavement counseling or a grief support group.
- Connect with other bereaved parents who understand.
- Give siblings space and support to grieve in their own way.
- Go gently with yourself. There is no schedule for this.
Guides for this stage
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Caring for Yourself as a Caregiver
Your health matters too. Why caregiver wellbeing is part of your child's care, and how to protect a little of yourself.
Read guideWhat families need most here
The kinds of help that matter most at this stage. You can always explore every need.
Caring for Myself
Your own health matters. Find mental-health support, respite, and a place to be asked how you are doing, not just how your child is.
Connection & Community
Connect with other families who truly get it, plus camps, retreats, and support groups online and in person.
Siblings
Brothers and sisters carry this too. Find ways to support siblings, keep them connected, and help them feel seen.
We are here for you
Find vetted programs in the resource finder, or tell us what your family needs and our team will reach out.